A friends with benefits relationship is amazing. You are able to enjoy sex and sexual activities whenever you want without any strings. That being said, you don't want to lose your FWB because they lose interest. Keeping spice in your no strings attached relationship can help to keep both of you just as entertained as the day you started.
Let's take a look at a few ways you can keep your FWB interested in your relationship.
Try Something New Every Time
The first thing that you should implement is that you try something new every time you get together. It doesn't have to be something big. Changing up the positions, adding in a toy, trying a new foreplay technique are all good options. If you are ready to explore something kinky, you can also try any number of new scenes or techniques there.
A number of FWB websites have tips on things to try when you are trying to keep things fresh in your relationship. Bookmark one of these lists and pick something off of it every time you get together to try.
Make Sure You Know What You Both Like
No matter what kind of relationship you are in, it is key to have communication. Make sure to let each other know when you like something. This will help you to keep in mind what to do again. At the same time, communicating what you don't like is just as important. Nothing will end interest quicker than a turnoff.
To help make new activities easier to try and more enjoyable, try mixing in things that you know your partner likes. Learning their turn-ons has a lot of benefits. One of the last being, the ability to turn on your partner easily when you want to.
Try A New Location
Too many people simply have sex on the bed. There are so many places that you can do the dirty that it is ridiculous to only try the bed. Break away from the bed at least every now and then to add some extra spice in your FWB relationship. The couch, floor, shower, and more can all be fun places to go. For those that are a little more adventurous you could try the outdoors or if you want something new, go to a hotel.
Sleep With Other People
One great benefit of being in a friends with benefits relationship is the fact that you don't have strings attached. You can sleep with other people. Taking a break from your partner and sleeping with another person will keep you fresh. You won't be with the same person every time. Many people also learn new techniques and tricks when they try sleeping with new partners.
Talk To Each Other If You Start To Have Feelings
It isn't uncommon for those who spend a lot of time close to each other to start to develop feelings. You may not even know at first. Sometimes these feelings manifest as small jealousy or thinking about them at random times. Even if you aren't sure about your feelings it is important to keep your partner in the loop. They should do the same for you too.
The most important thing to remember when trying to keep your friend with benefits interested is that life is a give and take. The more you give into the relationship the more you will get back from it. So to keep them interested ensure to help meet all of their needs and they will do the same for you. And remember to enjoy yourself.